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Atria regum hominibus plena sunt, amicis vacua=--The courts of kings are full of men, empty of friends.

Seneca.

My way of life / Is fall'n into the sere, the yellow leaf; / And that which should accompany old age, / As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but in their stead, / Curses, not loud, but deep, mouth-honour, breath / Which the poor heart would fain deny, but dare not.

_Macb._, v. 3.

Hominibus plenum, amicis vacuum=--Full of men, vacant of friends.

Seneca.

I would not enter on my list of friends ... the man / Who needlessly sets foot upon a worm.

_Cowper._

Dulce sodalitium=--A pleasant association of friends.

Unknown

I think all the heretics I have known have been virtuous men. They have the virtue of fortitude or they would not venture to own their heresy; and they cannot afford to be deficient in any of the other virtues, as that would give advantage to their many enemies; and they have not like orthodox sinners, such a number of friends to excuse or justify them. Do not, however mistake me. It is not to my good friend's heresy that I impute his honesty. On the contrary, 'tis his honesty that has brought upon him the character of heretic.

Benjamin Franklin

Honest men esteem and value nothing so much in this world as a real friend. Such a one is as it were another self, to whom we impart our most secret thoughts, who partakes of our joy, and comforts us in our affliction; add to this, that his company is an everlasting pleasure to us.

PILPAY (OR BIDPAI.)     _Choice of Friends. Chap. iv._

From quiet homes and first beginning, Out to the undiscovered ends, There's nothing worth the wear of winning, But laughter and the love of friends.

Hilaire Belloc (born 27 July 1870

Some people have a large circle of friends while others have only friends that they like.

Dalai Lama

Sunlight dances through the leaves Soft winds stir the sighing trees Lying in the warm grass Feel the sun upon your face Elven songs and endless nights Sweet wine and soft relaxing lights Time will never touch you Here in this enchanted place You feel there's something calling you You're wanting to return To where the misty mountains rise and friendly fires burn A place you can escape the world Where the dark lord cannot go Peace of mind and sanctuary by loud water's flow I've traveled now for many miles It feels so good to see the smiles of Friends who never left your mind When you were far away From the golden light of coming dawn Till the twilight where the sun is gone We treasure every season And every passing day We feel the coming of a new day Darkness gives way to light a new way Stop here for a while until the world, The world calls you away Yet you know I've had the feeling Standing with my senses reeling This is the place to grow old 'til I reach my final day.

RUSH

They that mean to make no use of friends will be at little trouble to gain them: and to be without friendship is to be without one of the first comforts of our present state.

_Johnson._

I would not enter on my list of friends (Though graced with polish'd manners and fine sense, Yet wanting sensibility) the man Who needlessly sets foot upon a worm.

WILLIAM COWPER. 1731-1800.     _The Task. Book vi. Winter Walk at Noon. Line 560._

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.

Charles William Eliot

The longer we live and the more we think, the higher value we learn to put on the friendship and tenderness of parents and of friends.

_Johnson._

I could live here, I think. Live where gravity does not know my name. Here I am unbound, untethered by the chains of this life. I am a different body, a different shell, and my weight is carried by the hands of friends. So many nights I’ve wished I could fall asleep under this sheet.

Tahereh Mafi

There is no peace in ambition; it is always gloomy, and often unreasonably so. The kindness of the king, the regards of the courtiers, the attachment of my domestics, and the fidelity of a large number of friends, make me happy no longer.

_Mme. de Pompadour._

My way of life Is fall'n into the sere, the yellow leaf; And that which should accompany old age, As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, I must not look to have; but in their stead Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not.

WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE. 1564-1616.     _Macbeth. Act v. Sc. 3._

But life is sweet, though all that makes it sweet Lessen like sound of friends' departing feet; And Death is beautiful as feet of friend Coming with welcome at our journey's end. For me Fate gave, whate'er she else denied, A nature sloping to the southern side; I thank her for it, though when clouds arise Such natures double-darken gloomy skies.

JAMES RUSSELL LOWELL. 1819-1891.     _To George William Curtis._

You think that about everyone, Phinehas.” “I wish I could, but I’m afraid I don’t.” He hesitated, then went on, “Why are you so hard on her, Ardon?” “You know what she is.” “No. I know what she was. You’ve got to understand people better.” “I understand well enough what a harlot is.” “If you hate everybody who has ever sinned, you’re going to have a narrow circle of friends,” Phinehas said wryly. “I don’t understand you, Phinehas. You’re too easy.” “God is merciful. We know that. You remember what He told Moses on the mount? How He was a God full of mercy and that He was tenderhearted?

Gilbert Morris

Kindness increases the love of friends, and diminishes the hatred of enemies.

John Wortabet     Arabian Wisdom

Obliged by hunger and request of friends.

ALEXANDER POPE. 1688-1744.     _Epistle to Dr. Arbuthnot. Prologue to the Satires. Line 44._

~Forbearance.~--The little I have seen of the world teaches me to look upon the errors of others in sorrow, not in anger. When I take the history of one poor heart that has sinned and suffered, and represent to myself the struggles and temptations it has passed through, the brief pulsations of joy, the feverish inquietude of hope and fear, the pressure of want, the desertion of friends, I would fain leave the erring soul of my fellow-man with Him from whose hand it came.--_Longfellow._

Maturin M. Ballou     Pearls of Thought

"A loth to depart" was the common term for a song, or a tune

262._     played, on taking leave of friends. TARLTON: _News out of

A handful of friends is worth more than a wagon of gold.

Fortune Cookie

Absent, adj.:

    Exposed to the attacks of friends and acquaintances; defamed; slandered.

Fortune Cookie

Reach into the thoughts of friends,

And find they do not know your name.

Squeeze the teddy bear too tight,

And watch the feathers burst the seams.

Touch the stained glass with your cheek,

And feel its chill upon your blood.

Hold a candle to the night,

And see the darkness bend the flame.

Tear the mask of peace from God,

And hear the roar of souls in hell.

Pluck a rose in name of love,

And watch the petals curl and wilt.

Lean upon the western wind,

And know you are alone.

        -- Dru Mims

Fortune Cookie

Even the best of friends cannot attend each other's funeral.

        -- Kehlog Albran, "The Profit"

Fortune Cookie

There comes a time to stop being angry.

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Fortune Cookie

Beware of friends who are false and deceitful.

Fortune Cookie

The shifts of Fortune test the reliability of friends.

        -- Marcus Tullius Cicero

Fortune Cookie

Our meeting here on earth with those we loved was not our doing. We did not select our father and mother, and sisters and brothers. We did not even explore the whole world to discover our friends. They too were more or less given us, the choice was given us, and the sphere of choice was determined and limited. Hence we seem to have a right to say that they were meant for us, and we for them, and unless we believe in accident, who is there by whose will alone they could have been meant for us? Hence, if they were meant for us once by a Divine, not by our own will, that will can never change, and we have a right to hope and even to believe that _what has been will be_, and that we shall again meet and love those whom we met and loved here. This is faith, and this is comfort, but it is greater faith, and greater comfort still, if we close our eyes in the firm conviction that whatever will be, will be best for us.

Friedrich Max Müller     Thoughts on Life and Religion

Unix is user-friendly. It's just very selective about who its friends are.

Unknown

Favours, and especially pecuniary ones, are generally fatal to friendship.

_Hor. Smith._

Keep to your old friends--your new friends will not be so constant.

John Wortabet     Arabian Wisdom

>Friendship is everything. Friendship is more than talent. It is more than the government. It is almost the equal of family.- Don Corleone

Mario Puzo

Omnes homines, qui de rebus dubiis consultant, ab odio, amicitia, ira, atque misericordia vacuos esse decet=--All men, who consult on doubtful matters, should be void of hatred, friendship, anger, and pity.

Sallust.

Will is deaf, and hears no heedful friends.

_Shakespeare._

You may depend upon it that he is a good man whose intimate friends are all good.

_Lavater._

Learned and leisured hospitality is the only antidote to the stance of deadly cleverness that is acquired in the professional pursuit of objectively secured knowledge. I remain certain that the quest for truth cannot thrive outside the nourishment of mutual trust flowering into a commitment to friendship.

Ivan Illich (date of death

Obey something, and you will have a chance of finding out what is best to obey. But if you begin by obeying nothing, you will end by obeying Beelzebub and all his seven invited friends.

_Ruskin._

It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without which the world is but a wilderness.

_Bacon._

Qu? virtus et quanta, boni, sit vivere parvo!=--How great, my friends, is the virtue of living upon a little!

Horace.

"A friendship founded on business is better than a business founded on friendship."

- John D. Rockefeller (1874-1960)

As thou these ashes, little brook, wilt bear Into the Avon, Avon to the tide Of Severn, Severn to the narrow seas, Into main ocean they, this deed accursed An emblem yields to friends and enemies How the bold teacher's doctrine, sanctified By truth, shall spread, throughout the world dispersed.

WILLIAM WORDSWORTH. 1770-1850.     _Ecclesiastical Sonnets. Part ii. xvii. To Wickliffe._

Viele Freunde und wenige Nothhelfer=--Many friends and few helpers in distress.

_Ger. Pr._

Nothing is so difficult as to help a friend in matters which do not require the aid of friendship, but only a cheap and trivial service, if your friendship wants the basis of a thorough practical acquaintance.

_Thoreau._

Meglio amici da lontano che nemici d'appresso=--Better be friends at a distance than enemies near each other.

_It. Pr._

What are men better than sheep or goats, that nourish a blind life within the brain, if, knowing God, they lift not hands of prayer both for themselves and those who call them friends!--_Tennyson._

Maturin M. Ballou     Pearls of Thought

Rapiamus, amici, / Occasionem de die=--Let us, my friends, snatch our opportunity from the passing day.

Horace.

Is there such a thing as a Lost Love? I do not believe it. Nothing that is true and great is ever lost on earth, though its fulfilment may be deferred beyond this short life.... Love is eternal, and all the more so if it does not meet with its fulfilment on earth. If once we know that our lives are in the hands of God, and that nothing can happen to us without His Will, we are thankful for the trials which He sends us. Is there any one who loves us more than God? any one who knows better what is for our real good than God? This little artificial and complicated society of ours may sometimes seem to be outside His control, but if we think so it is our own fault, and we have to suffer for it. We blame our friends, we mistrust ourselves, and all this because our wild hearts will not be quiet in that narrow cage in which they must be kept to prevent mischief.

Friedrich Max Müller     Thoughts on Life and Religion

He who has not the weakness of friendship has not the strength.

_Joubert._

Nothing gives such a blow to friendship as the detecting another in an untruth. It strikes at the root of our confidence ever after.

_Hazlitt._

When did friendship take / A breed for barren metal of his friend?

_Mer. of Ven._, i. 2.

Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried, / Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel.

_Ham._, i. 3.

This misfortune is, no doubt, greater and more common in the higher classes, but lesser men are not exempt from it, since there is always an interest in making men love us. Thus human life is but a perpetual illusion, an interchange of deceit and flattery. No one speaks of us in our presence as in our absence. The society of men is founded on this universal deceit: few friendships would last if every man knew what his friend said of him behind his back, though he then spoke in sincerity and without passion.

Blaise Pascal     The Thoughts of Blaise Pascal

False friends are like our shadow, close to us while we walk in the sunshine, but leaving us the instant we cross into the shade.

_Bovee._

I don't want to go to heaven. None of my friends are there.

Oscar Wilde

A friendship will be young at the end of a century, a passion old at the end of three months.

_Nigu._

Hedges between keep friendship green.

Proverb.

If friendship is to rob me of my eyes, if it is to darken the day, I will have none of it.

_Thoreau._

~Prosperity.~--Prosperity makes some friends and many enemies.--_Vauvenargues._

Maturin M. Ballou     Pearls of Thought

Spurgeon was once asked how he could reconcile the apparent contradiction between these two truths. He replied: “I never have to reconcile friends. Divine sovereignty and human responsibility have never had a falling out with each other. I do not need to reconcile what God has joined together.”2

Steven J. Lawson

To wail friends lost / Is not by much so wholesome, profitable, / As to rejoice at friends but newly found.

_Love's L. Lost_, v. 2.

Who ne'er knew joy but friendship might divide, Or gave his father grief but when he died.

ALEXANDER POPE. 1688-1744.     _Epitaph on the Hon. S. Harcourt._

I broke out crying and begging pardon, and hugged Joe round the neck: who dropped the poker to hug me, and to say, "Ever the best of friends; an't us, Pip? Don't cry, old chap!"

Charles Dickens     Great Expectations

He that aspires to be the head of a party will find it more difficult to please his friends than to perplex his foes. He must often act from false reasons, which are weak, because he dares not avow the true reasons, which are strong.

_Colton._

I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their good intellects.

Oscar Wilde

Old friends are best.= _King James I., as he slipt on his old shoes._

Unknown

>Friendship may come down by inheritance from ancestors, and so may hatred.

John Wortabet     Arabian Wisdom

Nomen amicitia est; nomen inane fides=--Friendship is but a name; fidelity but an empty name.

_Ovid._

Amicorum esse communia omnia=--Friends' goods are all common property.

Proverb.

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Rachel Renée Russell

Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and to have her nonsense respected.

Charles Lamb

Small service is true service while it lasts. / Of humblest friends, bright creature! scorn not one: / The daisy, by the shadow that it casts, / Protects the lingering dewdrop from the sun.

_Wordsworth, to a child._

Wisdom picks friends; civility plays the rest. / A toy shunn'd cleanly passeth with the best.

_George Herbert._

Ein Feind ist zu viel, und hundert Freunde sind zu wenig=--One foe is too many, a hundred friends are too few.

_Ger. Pr._

Reges dicuntur multis urgere culullis, / Et torquere mero, quem perspexisse laborent, / An sit amicitia dignus=--Kings are said to press with many a cup, and test with wine the man whom they desire to try whether he is worthy of their friendship.

Horace.

Believe me, a thousand friends suffice thee not; In a single enemy thou hast more than enough. I sometimes think that never blows so red The Rose as where some buried C?sar bled; That every Hyacinth the Garden wears Dropt in her Lap from some once lovely Head.

OMAR KHAYYAM. ---- -1123.     _Rubaiyat. Stanza xix._

>Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.

C.S. Lewis

The man of knowledge must be able not only to love his enemies but also to hate his friends.

Friedrich Nietzsche

The Greeks adored their gods by the simple compliment of kissing their hands; and the Romans were treated as atheists if they would not perform the same act when they entered a temple. This custom, however, as a religious ceremony, declined with Paganism; but was continued as a salutation by inferiors to their superiors, or as a token of esteem among friends. At present it is only practiced as a mark of obedience from the subject to the sovereign, and by lovers, who are solicitous to preserve this ancient usage in its full power.--_Disraeli._

Maturin M. Ballou     Pearls of Thought

Love breaks in with lightning flash: friendship comes like dawning moonlight. Love will obtain and possess; friendship makes sacrifices but asks nothing.

_Geibel._

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.

Martin Luther King Jr.

Love and friendship exclude each other.

_Du C?ur._

The wretched have no friends.

_Dryden._

Words are easy, like the wind; Faithful friends are hard to find.

William Shakespeare

Les amis de mes amis sont mes amis=--My friends' friends are my friends.

_Fr. Pr._

>Friendship, unlike love, which is weakened by fruition, grows up, thrives, and increases by enjoyment; and being of itself spiritual, the soul is reformed by the habit of it.

_Montaigne._

We have been friends together In sunshine and in shade.

CAROLINE E. S. NORTON (1808-1877): _We have been Friends._

Evidently Speranski liked to rest after his labors and find amusement in a circle of friends, and his guests, understanding his wish, tried to enliven him and amuse themselves. But their gaiety seemed to Prince Andrew mirthless and tiresome. Speranski's high-pitched voice struck him unpleasantly, and the incessant laughter grated on him like a false note. Prince Andrew did not laugh and feared that he would be a damper on the spirits of the company, but no one took any notice of his being out of harmony with the general mood. They all seemed very gay.

Leo Tolstoy     War and Peace

It is a virtue in hermits to forgive their enemies as well as their friends; but it is a fault in princes to show clemency towards those who are guilty.

_Hitopadesa._

Being a nerd, which is to say going too far and caring too much about a subject, is the best way to make friends I know.

Sarah Vowell

To be vain is rather a mark of humility than pride. Vain men delight in telling what honors have been done them, what great company they have kept, and the like; by which they plainly confess that these honors were more than their due and such as their friends would not believe if they had not been told. Whereas a man truly proud thinks the greatest honors below his merits, and consequently scorns to boast. I, therefore, deliver it as a maxim, that whoever desires the character of a proud man ought to conceal his vanity.--_Swift._

Maturin M. Ballou     Pearls of Thought

~Friendship.~--Friendship has steps which lead up to the throne of God, though all spirits come to the Infinite; only Love is satiable, and like Truth, admits of no three degrees of comparison; and a simple being fills the heart.--_Richter._

Maturin M. Ballou     Pearls of Thought

The memory of absent friends becomes dimmed, although not effaced by time. The distractions of our life, acquaintance with fresh objects, in short, every change in our condition, works upon our hearts as dust and smoke upon a painting, making the finely drawn lines quite imperceptible, whilst one does not know how it happens.

_Goethe._

Christ has been made so unreal to us, He has been spoken of in such unmeasured terms that it is very difficult to gain Him back, such as He was, without a fear of showing less reverence and love of Him than others. And yet, unreal expressions are always false expressions--nothing is so bad as if we do not fully mean what we say. Of course we know Christ through His friends only, they tell us what He told them--they represent Him as He appeared to them. What fallible judges they often were they do not disguise, and that, no doubt, raises the value of their testimony, but we can only see Him as they saw Him; the fact remains we know very little of Him. Still, enough remains to show that Christ was full of love, that He loved not only His friends, but His enemies. Christ's whole life seems to have been one of love, not of coldness. He perceived our common brotherhood, and what it was based on, our common Father beyond this world, in heaven, as He said.

Friedrich Max Müller     Thoughts on Life and Religion

He that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.

OLD TESTAMENT.     _Proverbs xvii. 9._

When once you profess yourself a friend, endeavour to be always such. He can never have any true friends that will be often changing them.= (?)

Unknown

In the adversity of our best friends we often find something that is not exactly displeasing. The opinion of the strongest is always the best.

J. DE LA FONTAINE. 1621-1695.     _The Wolf and the Lamb. Book i. Fable 10._

If everybody knew what one says of the other, there would not be four friends left in the world.

_Pascal._

>Friendship is love without its wings.

_Byron._

It is great prudence to gain as many friends as we honestly can, especially when it may be done at so easy a rate as a good word.

_Judge Hale._

I think wow, I imagine this is what it's like to have friends.

Tahereh Mafi

Depth of friendship does not depend on length of acquaintance.

Rabindranath Tagore

My candle burns at both ends; It will not last the night; But, ah, my foes, and, oh, my friends — It gives a lovely light.

Edna St. Vincent Millay

Absolutism tempered by assassination. A Cadmean victory.[807-2] After us the deluge.[807-3] All is lost save honour.[807-4] Appeal from Philip drunk to Philip sober.[807-5] Architecture is frozen music.[807-6] Beginning of the end.[808-1] Boldness, again boldness, and ever boldness.[808-2] Dead on the field of honour.[808-3] Defend me from my friends; I can defend myself from my enemies.[808-4] Extremes meet.[808-5] Hell is full of good intentions.[808-6] History repeats itself.[808-7] I am here: I shall remain here.[808-8] I am the state.[808-9] It is magnificent, but it is not war.[808-10] Leave no stone unturned.[809-1] Let it be. Let it pass.[809-2] Medicine for the soul.[809-3] Nothing is changed in France; there is only one Frenchman more.[809-4] Order reigns in Warsaw.[809-5] Ossa on Pelion.[809-6] Scylla and Charybdis.[810-1] Sinews of war.[810-2] Talk of nothing but business, and despatch that business quickly.[810-3] The empire is peace.[810-4] The guard dies, but never surrenders.[810-5] The king reigns, but does not govern.[810-6] The style is the man himself.[811-1] "There is no other royal path which leads to geometry," said Euclid to Ptolemy I.[811-2] There is nothing new except what is forgotten.[811-3] They have learned nothing and forgotten nothing.[811-4] We are dancing on a volcano.[811-5] Who does not love wine, women, and song Remains a fool his whole life long.[811-6] God is on the side of the strongest battalions.[811-7] Terrible he rode alone, With his Yemen sword for aid; Ornament it carried none But the notches on the blade.

MISCELLANEOUS TRANSLATIONS.     _The Death Feud. An Arab War-song._

The ideal of friendship is to feel as one while remaining two.

_Mme. Swetchine._

I do not believe that friendship today can flower out — can come out — of political life. I do believe that if there is something like a political life-to-be — to remain for us, in this world of technology — then it begins with friendship.

Ivan Illich (died 2 December 2002

>Friendship is only a reciprocal conciliation of interests, and an exchange of good offices; it is a species of commerce out of which self-love always expects to gain something.

FRANCIS, DUC DE LA ROCHEFOUCAULD. 1613-1680.     _Maxim 83._

My fair one, let us swear an eternal friendship.

JEAN BAPTISTE MOLIERE. 1622-1673.     _Le Bourgeois Gentilhomme. Act iv. Sc. 1._

We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over.

James Boswell

Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.

Mark Twain

Property should be in a general sense common, but as a general rule private…. In well-ordered states, although every man has his own property, some things he will place at the disposal of his friends, while of others he shares the use of them. [ The Politics. ]

Aristotle (rejecting the communism of Plato’s Republic ).

>Friendship is the marriage of the soul.

_Voltaire._

The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, not the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.

Aristotle

It sounds like stories from the land of spirits If any man obtains that which he merits, Or any merit that which he obtains. Greatness and goodness are not means, but ends! Hath he not always treasures, always friends, The good great man? Three treasures,--love and light, And calm thoughts, regular as infants' breath; And three firm friends, more sure than day and night,-- Himself, his Maker, and the angel Death.

SAMUEL TAYLOR COLERIDGE. 1772-1834.     _Complaint. Ed. 1852. The Good Great Man. Ed. 1893._

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